You need to take action when your child/ children's demands cross beyond the limit. Otherwise, this habit will keep you in trouble every time. You will make an end to this habit with some simple tricks.
Kids do not have lots of complications in their minds. Their behaviour and their minds work in the same Straight-forward line. So, they demand straightforwardly if they like something which, we, adults cannot do. This is the USP of kids!
But a few times, their excessive demand creates problems for their parent. Everday's demand makes the parents' life troublesome. Often demanding kids want the exact thing that they see. They start shouting in case of parental refusal and it becomes hard to resist them.
Parents become highly embarrassed when they face this kind of circumstance from their kids; especially in front of others. Lots of time they too cannot understand how they will make their kids understand. So, they have no way to fulfil their kids' wishes at that very time. This is the one reason the childrens' demands start increasing day by day. Slowly the height of their demands becomes Everest which is actually harmful.
Now the question is that is your kids also making demand every day that keeps you in trouble? If yes, then you need to read the entire article till the end.
No benefits to scold on kids
Often, lots of times, parents scold their kids when parents become the victim of their demands. But it creates more harm than to create profit. This behaviour of parents creates agitation in their child and that time, he/she becomes more stubborn.So, it is better to avoid kids' demands with a calm mind. Make themselves diverted or keep themselves engaged in any other activities. Their demand will get reduced by this trick, but it is not the permanent solution to this problem.
Give your kids a target
You can use your kids' demands positively. Give him/her a task if he/she wants something from you like a toy or games. Promise him/ her to gift this preferable thing later if he/ she accepts the challenge to score high in his/her coming exams. Children like to take on this kind of challenge. You will have two benefits from this trick. First, he/ she can concentrate more in study or his/ her work. Secondly, you can resist his/ her nagging for tenure.
They will understand if you make them understand
Most of the parents cannot rely on the intelligence of their children. So that they get busy ordering them than to make them understand and there lies the main problem! Today's kids are very independent by nature. You cannot make them controlled by ordering them. Rather make them understand the problem. You will need to make them understand nicely that their habit to demand every object will not get welcomed. This method will not work out for one session or two sessions, but it will certainly work out for 10th times and there lies your victory.
It may be a symptom of ADHD
The excessive nagging and abnormal anger of kids may be a signal of a complicated disease like ADHD. Take care of your kids while you have the time. Take your child/children to a psychiatrist. Hope that you can make an easy solution to the problem. Counselling is the essential therapy to cure this mental fluctuation. So, no need to be worried; rather take the precautionary and necessary steps.
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